Thinking out loud, one post at a time.
- Wake on the First Alarm: A Rule, Not a DecisionI dreamed of waking without an alarm. I can't, not yet. So I built one rule to stop the snooze button from stealing my week — and moved every choice to after I'm awake.
- Compound Interest: Grow the Tree, Eat the FruitI charted two kids from age 11 to 100. One plants a $3,000 seed and never touches it. The other keeps watering it, then lives off the fruit. Both end up rich. The chart is the whole lesson.
- Where Capital Comes From: Labor, Knowledge, Agency, WisdomThe money tree needs time. It also needs a seed big enough to be worth the wait. Here are the four jobs that grow the seed — and the four things each one really sells.
- Stuff I Love and Actually UseA small, honest list of things I own, use, and would buy again — with a real review on each, and one column most lists hide: does the brand actually matter?
- What Do I Want? Design the Day, Not the DreamFIRE tells you when you can stop selling your hours. But you only know when to stop if you know what you'd do instead. So I wrote down one ideal day, hour by hour.
- On Buying InsuranceHealth, house, car, travel — and the one rule under all of them: insure the loss that would wipe you out, pay for the rest yourself.
- On Owning a CarWhat a string of cars taught me about tools, liabilities, and being honest with myself.
- On Buying a HouseAfter living in a few homes across different life stages, why I'd rather hold stocks till I die.
- FIRE: How Much Is Enough?Financial Independence, Retire Early — the simple equation, how to find your own number, and the lifestyle creep everyone fights.
- A Trip to New York and Washington DCNotes from another visit to Manhattan and a first real look at DC — on walkability, density, anonymity, and a storm that wouldn't let us leave.
- Graduation: A Letter to My ChildYou've graduated and escaped the 'prison.' Now the world is yours, alone. A father's letter on failure, freedom, and reinventing yourself.
- 11 Lessons I've LearntI'm in my 40s. Here's what I'd tell my younger self — about money, health, people, and peace of mind.